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This generally happens to me about once every week or two -- the people are typically faculty or students in Third World countries, or strange motivational speakers and similar types whose pages show they have 3,000 Facebook friends.
Green was a middle school teacher and coach in North Kansas City at the time of that incident. North Kansas City school district released a statement Sunday.
When I opened this friend request up, the picture was of a quite attractive woman.
The Info was pretty basic but showed a number of "pages" the person was on and a list of other friends -- just like a normal Facebook Info page.
However, there was no "send a message" icon, and without that, I just decided to ignore the request -- though, all other things being equal, the idea of an attractive woman as a Facebook friend is not unattractive (!
) to me, as would be the case, I assume, with most guys.
It’s really easy to complain about these internal issues that I’ve experienced as a twenty one year-old cis white gay man in 2014 when I’m lucky to even have the ability to reach other queer people in such a quick, easy way and not have to put myself in danger in any way to do so.
But while it’s very easy to make these immediate connections to other gay men, it’s also easy to build up an image of yourself and an image of the person you’re interacting with; obviously this has always been the problem with meeting anyone online since way back when people still had AOL email addresses.
But if you just turn your phone off for 24 hours, you’ll realize you just stop worrying about how a perfectly pleasant conversation turned to a string of increasingly desperate, unreturned messages.
I honestly can’t fathom how much of my life I’ve wasted on Grindr in the 3 years I’ve been on it, but it’s also great for material and just personal amusement.
**** It’s become a cliché to point out how connected yet how alone we all are because of the internet, but that’s because it’s true.
Most of what we would call online dating or an online relationship is more of a self-serving projection of one’s own needs and insecurities onto exchanged texts (sans tone) and a couple shirtless photos.
The victim said Green would go on to request explicit photos and videos from the victim, and would send some of himself.